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Daddys on the field in HS ball?

Discussion in 'Softball Forum' started by deacdiddy, Jul 21, 2009.

  1. deacdiddy

    deacdiddy Junior Member

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    Is this a good idea? Some coaches need the help..agreed. Does Monty allow daddies in the dugout? On the teams that have daddies helping, is there any friction created?
     
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    cheeze105 Moderator Staff Member

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    i've seen good and bad on this issue. i've been a hs coach for seven years now, and started as a dad, but i just taught basics/covered first base for varsity, coached the jv team and left my dd to the head varsity coach. but i've witnessed some things that made my head spin.

    parents are ok as long as they understand that the "daddy thing" is left in the parking lot. some parents truely have a lot of good things to offer to a hs team and the only true issue is trying to persuade or influence playing time for their dd or her friends. we have had this issue in the past, and the parent was given a choice to be quite and help, or just leave. they got the point.....truth be know, we couldnt of done as well as we did this year without help from a few parents.

    thanks to chris jordan, great hitting instructor.
     
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    It is just like anything else...some dads can handle it and some dads can't handle it.
     
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    again

    I've mentioned before seeing daddy on a bucket in dugout signaling pitches to DD in the circle. bad stuff. bush league IMO. daddies please stay in the stands.
     
  5. deacdiddy

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    Anyone know whether Monty S. allows daddies in the dugout?
     
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    From what I know of Monte---I'd be absolutely shocked if he did.
     
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    For a number of reasons, as a general rule I don't think it's a good idea. But there are always exceptions.
     
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    Huh?

    It's OK for daddy ball to exist within the TB ranks, and if it wasn't for travel ball then HS ball would not be nearly as good because TB develops all the good players that walk through the doors of HS teams, but people frown upon coaching Dad's in HS ball? What's so special about HS coaching that a Dad who coaches TB can not do a HS game. How is that bush league? Someone help me out.
     
  9. cheeze105

    cheeze105 Moderator Staff Member

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    ok, lets look at it this way. the AVERAGE hs coach probably played slowpitch in their past. that is a world away from fastpitch. a guy who has coached his dd and her friends for the previous five or six years and can help in hs is an asset period (alright, in most cases he can be an asset).

    in my conference, all seven teams have had a dad help with them at one time or another, one of them was the head coach (very successful) and five were assistant coaches. we wouldnt be at the level we are without their experience, training or help. so in some cases, its not bush league, its just common sense to improve the level of the game.
     
  10. deacdiddy

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    I'd be shocked also. Could it be that Monte keeping daddies (politics) off his field could be part of the reason for his great success?
     

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