refs

Question? Whats going on in High School Basketball? Why are the refs letting play get out of hand. The game we had tonight was a slug fest and then when one of our players ask a ref to watch a certain player he gave him a T.
Is the state tellling the refs to let them play or what? And if they are not going to enforce the paint they need to just take that rule out of the books. The coach we played against tonight is the smartest Ive seen, he has taught his kids to set up in the paint, he knows they dont call 3 seconds any more. Just Wondering if anybody else noticed the same. Yes and by the way we lost but we do that alot, so not crying here just wondering.